We celebrated DLW's 28th birthday on Friday but I like birthdays to last all weekend. Planning his birthday was harder this year with a new baby. We didn't go out to dinner or take a day trup but I did my best to make it special at home.
We started the weekend off right with Chick-fil-A breakfast Friday morning (after the gym of course).
We had Chipotle for lunch and hung out at home with the babe all afternoon.
I baked a lemon cake with buttercream frosting. I had never made a two layer cake before. It turned out slightly lopsided but delicious. p.s. these flowers from The Bouqs are gorgeous.
A few friends came over Friday night for pizza, cake, and beers.
You're never too old for pirate plates
DLW went hiking with a buddy Saturday while I stayed at home taking selfies with Collins.
We took a family walk later and it's really starting to feel like Fall Pre-Winter.
Sundays are lazy days for us. We spent most of the day on the couch watching football and napping.
After seeing everyone's race pictures on Facebook & Instagram, I was super jealous and motivated. I got out for a 4 mile run and felt great!
Chick-fil-A breakfast: chicken minis or chicken biscuit?
The #1 question you get as a new parent is, "is he/she sleeping through the night?"
To which I respond with a very sarcastic laugh.
Would I love for Collins to sleep through the night? Of course. Do I mind getting up for 20 minutes to change & feed her? Not at all. Do the dogs still get us up in the middle of the night too? You bet.
Between the baby and the dogs, I am awake between 2 and 4 times during the night. I'm trying to figure out if the dogs are waking the baby up or if the baby is waking up the dogs. I take baby duty while DLW handles the dogs. I have the luxury of sleeping in but poor DLW is up at 4:30 am most days. It's no surprise that we love naps.
4pm nap time at our house
This is what our sleep/nap routine looks like although I'm sure it will change tomorrow:
Her nighttime feedings are like clockwork:
1:30 am: Change, feed, back to sleep (20 minutes)
4:30 am: Change, feed, back to sleep (20 minutes). DLW gets up for PT.
7:30 am: Change, feed, and sometimes we go back to sleep until 8:30 or 9ish
She will almost always go back to sleep in her Rock n' Play. Her morning nap usually lasts until about noon and I actually get things done and go to the gym. Afternoons are hit or miss. She will often sleep in the early afternoon and just want to be held later in the day. She succumbs to the infamous "witching hour" anytime we sit down to eat dinner and while we watch TV at night. She will fuss a little and feed on and off until it's time for bed.
I am trying to pick up on her sleepy signs and put her to bed before she gets overtired (the worst). I would like to get into a solid bedtime routine and give her a bath every night but so far that has happened once. Our routine right now is that DLW changes her diaper and puts her in clean pajamas while I get myself ready for bed. Then I feed her while DLW brushes his teeth and then it's lights out for all of us around 9 or 9:30 pm.
I do my best to put her down in her Pack n' Play while she's still awake. I don't want her to get into the habit of being nursed or rocked to sleep. I want her to learn to self soothe because we have had zero luck with a pacifier. Last night she was just chatting away in the dark and eventually calmed herself down and dozed off.
Baby sleep is unpredictable and I am letting her run the show. If she wants to sleep all afternoon then she can sleep all afternoon. So far that has worked for us and she has had no problems sleeping at night after napping most of the day.
When nights get hard and she is fighting sleep, I just remind myself that she can't stay awake forever.
Collins is officially six weeks old which means I am officially six weeks postpartum. Six weeks is the magic number for when most people are "cleared" for exercise and other activities. However, there was no way I could wait until my postpartum appointment NEXT week to be "cleared" for exercise. I don't think "most people" were sprinting on the treadmill the day before they went into labor.
When it comes to exercise, I am a big fan of listening to your body and doing what you feel comfortable with. I felt comfortable jogging at three weeks postpartum and monitored my body from there. I started back at OrangeTheory at four weeks and have had no problems. I was fortunate to exercise until the end of my pregnancy and I believe that has made all the difference.
Keep in mind that I am not sharing my progress pictures to hurt anyone's feelings or make anyone feel bad about themselves. However, I am darn proud of my hard work and I'm going to share it. I am just as shocked by my progress as you might be. Trust me.
Weight Loss: 28 lbs (I gained 25 while pregnant)
Observations: I have obviously seen BIG changes in my body. The most obvious change is in my midsection but the weight and extra water has fallen off all over my body. My butt shrunk (thank goodness) and my arms are noticeably thinner too. EVERYTHING is easier when I exercise and I experience none of the pains I had towards the end of my pregnancy. I feel more confident than ever and love my body. I mean, it made a human!
Exercise: I am not yet back into a solid exercise routine. I get to OrangeTheory twice a week and that's about it. I am hoping to start jogging once or twice a week and doing BodyPump at home. I admit that I've been using the "six week rule" as an excuse. I feel 100% back to my normal self and I really have no reason not to be doing something every day.
Food: I'm still eating like I'm pregnant. It helps that we eat all of our meals at home these days but I still help myself to Famous Amos cookies (I could live off them) and Halloween candy. I am hoping to clean up my eating in the coming weeks to make further progress.
Goals: I do have a goal weight in mind and I am close but giving myself plenty of time to get there. My goal weight is what I call my "happy weight" where I exercise most days, feel good about my body, and still enjoy a small treat every day. Even if I hit that weight, there is plenty of toning to be done. I love the look of muscles and want to work on definition. I would also like to fit into all of my pants; I feel like I have a muffin top in my jeans from all the loose skin around my tummy. I plan to start holding planks every day to tighten up my midsection.
I will be officially "cleared" after my postpartum appointment next week and I think my doctor will be proud of my progress (she is a runner and her husband is a personal trainer). It's no secret that I worked my tush off while I was pregnant and shouldn't be a surprise that I was itching to get back in the gym ASAP.
I could sit here and tell you "comparison is the thief of joy" and to not compare yourself to me but I won't. We compare ourselves to each other in all aspects of our lives. It is awful but it's the truth. Rather than be discouraged by others' progress, use it as inspiration to get moving and create the life you want. We all have different bodies and experiences but we can all make positive changes too. Thank you for your support and encouragement!
This post is sponsored by Hillshire but all opinions are my own.
The best part about living in Colorado is the natural beauty that is right in our own backyard. DLW and I do our best to take advantage of Colorado's scenic beauty because there will come a day when we will move again and miss seeing mountains every day.
One of my favorite places in Colorado Springs is Garden of the Gods. The park is known for its unique red rock formations and offers many hiking trails. Garden of the Gods is the perfect afternoon adventure but make sure you pack some snacks.
DLW has a super fast metabolism so I never leave home with out a few snacks stashed in my bag. We stopped on our hike to enjoy Hillshire Snacking's new Genoa Salame small plate and Grilled Chicken Bites with Teriyaki dipping sauce.
Hillshire Snacking's products contain premium meats, bold flavors, and 15+ grams of protein.
DLW is often eating between classes and the protein will keep his energy up throughout the day. I can see myself chowing down on the grilled chicken bites after a hard workout or when I forget to eat lunch because the baby is being cranky. It happens. We will definitely be buying more Hillshire Snacking products to enjoy at home and to take with us on our adventures here in Colorado.
What is your favorite snack to take on an adventure?
What do you do like no one else? Tweet now through Nov. 15th using #UNIQUEWAY and @HillshireSnacks and share something you do like no one else. You will be entered to win over 70 weekly prizes!
#spon: I'm required to disclose a relationship between our site and Hillshire. This could include Hillshire providing us w/content, product, access or other forms of payment.